Massage
to Reduce Stress

One of the best ways of discharging stress and staying happy
and healthy is by having massage. What is massage?Massage is
rubbing, kneading, tapping or otherwise manipulating the soft
body tissue with the hands or with some instrument designed
for this purpose. Massage relaxes tense muscles, eases stress,
relieves pain and can help you get to sleep.
Where did massage originate?
Like acupuncture, massage therapy originated in China about
two thousand years ago.
From there it traveled to India and took on a more sensual image.
This is where the Hindu Tantric massage originated. It was used
to awaken the kundalini or life force believed to lie coiled
at the base of the spine.
Massage therapy traveled on across the land to Ancient Greece
where it was used as a remedy for many ailments, especially
those related to the athletic sports that were so popular. Even
Hippocrates, the Father of Medicine, used massage therapy in
his practice.
From Greece on to Rome and to Persia. Now the full body massage
became popular to loosen stressed muscles, relax nervous tension
and increase the circulation of the blood.
Common Massage Techniques
The most common massage techniquesto reduce stress include
effleurage, a light, firm and gentle stroking; petrissage, firm
kneading and rolling of the tissues; frottage, or friction,
deep direct pressure to release muscle tension; tapotement,
hacking, tapping and clapping over the muscles and fleshy parts
of the body.
Partners
If you or your partner are stressed then the massage technique
below may help to reduce your stress levels.
Stand behind your partner and rest your hands softly over each
shoulder. This is a hold, which will give her time to relax
into the warmth and contact of your touch. After a stressful
day, the caring, gentle presence of your hands on her shoulders
will reassure her and help bring her attention to this area
of her body, so that she can start to unwind.
Begin with passive movements, which will help to relax the shoulder
joints and arms. Stand just in front of and facing your partner's
right shoulder. Place your left hand lightly over it and clasp
her hand in your right hand. Encourage your partner to let the
whole weight of her arm drop and to allow you to make all the
movements. Keeping her elbow flexed, extend her arm away from
her body and rock it gently and rhythmically back and forth
and up and down. The more confidence you display in your hands
with the movement, the more she will be able to relax the weight
of her arm and consequently the tightness in her shoulder. Now
repeat these passive movements on the left side of her body.
Stand behind your partner and rub a little oil or lotion into
your hands, then begin to spread it with soft, flowing movements
around the mid-to-upper back, shoulders, and upper arms. These
stroking motions will begin to warm and relax the area, easing
away stiffness from tense tissue. Let your hands fan out, encircle,
and define the rounded
shape of the shoulders, shoulder blades, and sides of the body.

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